Video of Black Coffee Sharing Marriage Advice with Mnqobi Shoba Amid Divorce Reports

Video of Black Coffee Sharing Marriage Advice with Mnqobi Shoba Amid Divorce Reports. Media personality Phumeza Shoba reportedly filed for divorce from her husband and musician Mnqobi Shoba On Sunday, 7 September 2025, social media user unearthed footage of Black Coffee imparting marriage advice to Mnqobi Shoba Several netizens criticised Black Coffee and linked his influence to Shoba’s alleged infidelity.

Media personality Phumeza Shoba reportedly filed for divorce from her husband and musician Mnqobi Shoba On Sunday, 7 September 2025, social media user unearthed footage of Black Coffee imparting marriage advice to Mnqobi Shoba Several netizens criticised Black Coffee and linked his influence to Shoba’s alleged infidelity

In the video, Black Coffee, who also went through a messy divorce with media personality Enhle Mbali, suggested that they were ill-advised about marriage because their fathers weren’t as successful as they are.

“To be a black, and I’m gonna use the word successful, today living in my country because there’s no, there’s no education, no school, in personal development. If you look at your father and my father, who he knew very well, they were not equipped with the skills to advise us to be the men we are,” Black Coffee said.

Black Coffee, who consistently serves couple goals with his Venezuelan girlfriend, urged Shoba to attend therapy as often as possible. He also encouraged him to frequently change therapists, arguing that one therapist isn’t enough. He gave his experience after he divorced, and how he saw two therapists, saying:

“Constantly sticking to therapy, and not all therapists can help you. Not all of them. When I was first going through my divorce stuff, the first therapist I saw, I told her, ‘I need you to help me get over the fact that I’m being told how horrible I am as a human being. I am starting to believe it. I need you to help me, please and if I am terrible, tell me.’ When I felt I was fine, I changed my therapist. I went to another one and I said to her, ‘Help me take responsibility for all my actions.’” 

Black Coffee gives his childhood friend Shota this advice about MARRIAGE and fame:

“Your father and my father were NOT men that were equipped with the skills to advise us to be the men we are…” 😭😭😭

Sunday World just reported that Phumeza is divorcing Shota. 💔 pic.twitter.com/M2eZi8OzBf

— YaseBlock B 🇸🇿 (@ThisIsColbert) September 7, 2025

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